About Roksolana's dating agency antiscam policy. How can I be sure that my Ukrainian wife loves me for who I am and not for my money and a Visa to my country? The problem of fraud and cheating in the Internet system is one of the most important. The reason is that we do not know people whom we chat or correspond or want to meet with personally and it is risky equally both for men and women. The prevailing view exists among men looking for bride in Ukraine or Russia and other former Soviet Union countries that Russian and Ukrainian women are fakers and light-o'-loves mostly. It is not true of course! It is the same as every second eligible bachelor is a pervert, sex fiend and polygamist… such people join the dating sites with their own goals and aims. And we are to be on our guard to avoid such people and try and reveal them before any serious trouble occurs to. How to reveal women-scammers? Actually t is not complicated. There are simple general rules you are to follow not to fall for the bait. The First Rule. Never transfer money for women! You ask why? As easy as ABC. Women because of their nature love new stuff and they are not always good in saving money. Most likely she will spend money for daily needs such as payment for public utilities, new clothes or beauty treatment, etc. No matter where your lady is from it is equal for all women from any country. There are exceptions to the rule certainly but “do not tease the dog with piece of meat”. It appears from this that if you both plan to meet with your lady order tickets for her through Air Company or reliable tourist agency. Yes, it will cost more but if you send money you take risk to lose everything! The Second Rule. Never believe that have been communicating through the Internet for 1-2 months your pen pal will fall in love with you at once. And having big age difference how you can talk about love at all? It is an affection probably. To understand better if you need this person you have to meet her personally. Correspondence and video chat will give you a chance to see the person and learn her thoughts and wishes and preferences. But you cannot know real nature of the person, her behavior and reaction to this or that event and how she looks like in real life till you meet her. That’s why before you consider it is love meet this person in real life and spend a weeks at least with together. Then you will know for sure if she needs you. The Third Rule. Use the professional interpreters services. You think you do not need the help of the interpreter because your lady is to know English (or any other foreign language) if she comes to me. It is the biggest mistake! Yes, ladies study English at school and then some of them continue studying English at Universities. But do not forget they have not got any practice either in writing or speaking English. They are able to understand about 50 words which is enough to explain where she lives and where she comes from. But what are you going to do when she comes to yours and will not be able to go shopping herself or communicate with neighbors? You both understand each other without words at first but what next? Our practice shows that ladies who come to our agency considering they know English do not understand good few of the simplest letter. That’s why lady needs the help of the interpreter. But it is expensive. You can say a man can translate his letters into Russian himself and send them to his lady but it will cost three times as much. Never use electronic translator! Men laugh at ladies’ letters when the latest use electronic translator writing their letters to men. Men say they cannot get idea of what lady tried to tell them. Do you think your situation differs a lot?! Any translator, the newest one even does not translate correctly! There are sites where professional linguists-interpreters translate letters and it helps both women and men to understand each other. But if your lady does not speak English at all she will have to attend English courses, she will not be able to pass interview at the Embassy to get Fiancée visa otherwise. The forth rule. Ask your lady to send you as much amateurish pictures taken in ordinary situations of her life as possible, or invite her to video chat with you. Swindlers use photos of ladies stolen from other sites often and fraud men using their photos and acting on behalf of ladies. A real lady possibly cannot imagine such situation even! Then such girl appears in Black Lists and she looses any possibilities to find good man in the Internet. Why you should trust large-scale dating sites/agencies first of all? Because large-scale dating sites/agencies (such as Roksolana Dating & Marriage Agency) take care of their reputation and good name. They check thoroughly their ladies-clients and keep copies of their documents (such as passport, divorce certificate, birth certificate, etc.) to avoid fraud from the very outset. |
Small agencies do not follow these conceptions as a rule. It happens than married women or just women who want to leave abroad in deceitful way to bring their families to the foreign country later appeal to dating agency. The large-scale and serious dating agencies pervert it immediately. The large-scale and serious dating agencies assume responsibility and control for translating and forwarding letters, gift and flowers deliveries, tour organization, visa documents arrangement, etc. Using our services is much more secure and safe for men than traveling themselves using help of dubious taxi drivers and other “guides” as they cannot guarantee your safety and security. How men fraud women? Women are very credulous, as they say “women love with ears”… Dating swindlers use women’s trustfulness shamelessly. There are several types of “dating swindle” relative to women at least. When a man cleans a woman out. Most of Ukrainian women own realty, cars, jewelry, etc. and “dating swindle” persuades to sell everything before leaving for his country, then he just steals money and disappears… It happens also when a lady arrives to the man’s country having big sums of money with her and her man cleans her out on his territory, in foreign lands for her. Sexual exploitations still exist when a man wants to have good time with a nice girl. He invites her to visit any country where she does not need entrance visa persuading that it is necessary for further relations and communication or he can invite her to visit his country where she lives till he is bored with her and then he just throw her out having “new victim” already in the Internet Catalogue. It is good when he gives her money to return home… some men just kill women and no traces will be left behind… she is deprived of civil rights in his country. Realizing the seriousness of this problem the USA government has promulgated a law known as The International Marriage Broker Regulation from March 16, 2006, forbidding the US citizens to exchange contact information with women from foreign countries. Scammers Hunters. There are many sites in the Internet containing lists of scammers. The half of those lists just misleads men and is not true. Some men disfigure facts wittingly to do harm to a lady. If you see picture and name of the girl you correspond with just ask the owner of the site about the reason of placing that girl’s name into Black List. Most likely you will get indistinct answer that girl asked money or one man made a present for her and she refused to meet with him… There are lists of real scammers for sure where you can see pictures and different names and addresses used to fraud men and you can see published correspondence and sums of money spent for those ladies with dates of transfer and other evidences of dishonest actions. If you cannot see all mentioned above things probably mentally deranged man played bad joke with a lady. A lot of such examples exist! There are Black Lists for men also where pictures of men with their names and addresses are published. There are also Forums where such men are discussed and entire correspondence with photos is published for review so nobody else falls for the bait. Surely even site of the large-scale dating agency is not able to guarantee 100% security. Such Dating & Marriage Agency as Roksolana Dating & Marriage Agency do their best to protect both sides from swindlers’ harm – contact information thorough checking, close contact with their clients, close inspection of documents and papers, etc. but sometimes it is not enough for the situation when a man and a woman cannot establish relations. We cannot 100% guarantee that a man and a woman can get on successfully. As time goes by you both can open unpleasant sides of your characters such as extravagancy, roughness and lack of understanding. Then your relations come to the end and those gifts you have already presented may be not returned to you ever. Each of you will keep your own opinion and offence in heart. It is life… Some men consider if they joined Dating Agency it was like entering Internet store so if he wrote to a lady she has to correspond with him. They cannot imagine even that lady might do not like him beginning with as an example he is brunet (and she prefers blond), and she is 25 and he is 52! You must consider ladies’ opinion and claim as they are not cars of the latest model but alive people. We wish you a great success in your search of your second half! |